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Don Weaver

May 22, 1936 — May 3, 2025

Robert Weaver

With deep sorrow and profound love, we announce the passing of Robert Donald Weaver, Don, as he was affectionately known, passed away on May 3, 2025, surrounded by those who loved him. He was a lifelong resident of Alabama, a state he held dear to his heart throughout his 88 years of life.

Born on May 22, 1936, Don was the son of Julius Quenton Weaver and Clara Melati Hicks Weaver, who preceded him in death. He was also preceded in death by his first wife, Sarah Gealean Weaver, and his brother, Jim Weaver.

He graduated from Woodlawn High School in 1954 and went on to earn a Bachelor of Science in Mechanical Engineering from Auburn University in 1958. While at Auburn, he served as president of the Pi Kappa Phi fraternity, a testament to his leadership and dedication to others.

Don leaves behind his beloved wife, Phyllis Howard Weaver, whom he married in 2003. Their love brought him joy and companionship in his later years. He is also survived by his children: Carol Anne Dearing (Mark), Linda Katherine Rasmussen, Robert Donald Weaver, Jr., and Scott Edwin Weaver (Meredith); his stepchildren: Karen Stahr Horan (John), Erik Howard Stahr (Christi), and Mary Elizabeth Stahr Sandlin (Woody); and a legacy of grandchildren and great-grandchildren who they affectionately called, "Daddy Don", will carry his memory forward: Melissa Irwin (James), Samuel Sackett, Mallory Alexander (Jordan), Reed Dearing (Sarah Peyton), Sarah Strausbaugh, Katherine Anne Kovacs (Jordan), Kambiz Weaver, Satsuki Weaver, Yumiko Weaver, Takumi Weaver, numerous great-grandchildren, and two great-great-grandchildren. He also leaves behind a brother-in-law, Fred Faith, and many extended family members and dear friends.

His professional journey was one marked by excellence and integrity. Don devoted over 50 years to the field of mechanical engineering, becoming a registered professional engineer in 13 states. His career began at Davis, Speake & Associates and continued with distinguished service at Lockwood Green Engineers in Spartanburg, SC, and Atlanta, GA. In 1970, Don returned to Birmingham, Alabama, where he co-founded Miller & Weaver, Inc., Consulting Engineers, with Edwin Miller. Don won many professional awards, was a mentor to young and experienced engineers, a legacy of innovation and professional achievement in the profession.

Following his retirement, Don embraced a life rich in beauty and meaning. He delighted in traveling the world, enjoying golf, the beach and the lake. His artistic spirit flourished in retirement, as he poured his heart into detailed woodworking, model ship-building, watercolor paintings, and heartfelt poetry.

A longtime member of Briarwood Presbyterian Church, Don served faithfully as a Deacon.

On Wednesday, May 7, 2025, a funeral service will be held at Briarwood Presbyterian Church, with visitation at 1 p.m. and service at 2 p.m. Burial at Jefferson Memorial Gardens will follow the funeral service.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in the memory of Robert Donald Weaver to Briarwood Presbyterian Church, the Crohn's & Colitis Foundation (https://www.crohnscolitisfoundation.org/) or a charity of your choice.

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Visitation

Wednesday, May 7, 2025

1:00 - 2:00 pm

Briarwood Presbyterian Church

2200 Briarwood Way, Birmingham, AL 35243

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Funeral Service

Wednesday, May 7, 2025

2:00 - 3:00 pm

Briarwood Presbyterian Church

2200 Briarwood Way, Birmingham, AL 35243

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