Carey Cox

The year is 1960, and a 14 year old Carey Cox is staring, gape mouthed, across the ice at “Paradice” Ice Skating Arena in Irondale, Alabama. A nearby friend asks what he’s staring at. He smiles and says, “My future wife.” His friend replied, ‘You don’t even know her name.’ Carey responded, “Well, I’m about to”, then hopped over the rail, skated over and introduced himself to Elaine. That fateful moment would turn into a blissful almost 52 years of marriage. It’s the kind of love story you generally only hear about in books and movies, but it was their reality. He often felt like his life only really began when he met her. How fitting, now, at his life’s end, that they be reunited, once again, this time for all of eternity.

A graduate of Leeds high school, gifted machinist for 40 years, beloved softball coach and band parent/grandparent, he was known to many and loved by all for his dedication and generosity. He was a member of Holy Infant of Prague Catholic Church in Trussville, AL. He never met a stranger, loved his family and his country, and had a passion for good food, good company and good conversation. His deep and abiding love for music is one of the many cherished gifts passed down to his daughter and grandchildren – all of whom he adored. Whenever Carey was around, an abundance of laughter and smiles were bound to follow. Even now, through the sadness, it’s impossible to think back on him and not share those warm smiles and memories. He will be greatly missed, though never forgotten.

Survived by: His daughter, Traci Cox Cardwell (Eric), grandchildren, Jacob Self, Abbie Self, Laura Cardwell, and Chelsea Cardwell. Brother, Dan T. Cox, Sr., and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, and beloved friends.

Preceded by: His beloved wife of almost 52 years, Elaine Kinum Cox; parents, Watson M. Cox and Eula Mae Cox; brother Jimmy Cox; and sisters, Betty Jean Harris, Lena Mae Harris, and Carolyn Sue Wallace.

Memorial service will be Monday, November 24,2025, at Jefferson Memorial Trussville. Visitation will be from 1:00-2:00, with a chapel service at 2:00. Instead of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to St. Jude Hospital, in his memory.

***One final note from his daughter, Traci***

My Daddy was never a formal man and would have no expectation of that from anyone else. If he ever touched your life, made an impression – even if just a memorable encounter

and shared smile, we would love to see you as we honor his life and memory. Casual and formal attire alike will be greeted with a grateful hug.